Truth of lives

 1-Everything has a meaningful end !!


We know this right then,,

Why attach so much?

Why you hold one emotion?

Why it's hard to forgive them?

Why it's hard to accept things?

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We are entangled in 5 min dopamine pleasures and never wish to know and see reality.

We are lost souls....

*Some are lazy and wish nothing ( no big change)

*Some want instant happiness and die the same way

*Some are corrupt due to own certain believes



2- We assume things


We hear and read a lot of good stuff and unfortunately many of us are not capable to process that thing and end up thinking it in a wrong way.

Our mindset is so limited due to our own education system we never wish to think out of box!

For many of us , we read , but we are too lazy to apply it in our lives and certainly we live a rollercoaster life for years.




3-Our survival mechanism -


We are build to be survived not to be happy,,,

We feel hurt everytime we are rejected from a job by our boss , by our friends, by our neighbour cause we are needed to be social and back then to live together in tribes was a great challenge which now has nothing to do perhaps you can do arrange marriage with someone, join social groups , gym, tinder , facebook so much right !!

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Understand things you will hurt less,

The dopamine kick everytime you buy, you visit new place, you eat is just cause of exploration attitude of human nature , and yeah soon after that happiness wears off,,,even if it's a Alto, Ferrari, Lamborghini, Nike, or any thing .

Understand it , it can save your energy, your money off course.




4- Possessions trap


My way in life is simple,

Live life like a queen but have no regret or sadness if you loose everything.

Too much love for things is same like holding a cloud.

No matter how hard you try, it will go




5- I am easy peasy on me


I cheat somedays, yes I do but I have no regrets, I can be perfect 80% 

But at end 20% monkey mind still wants that dopamine hike.

I understand it just !

Cause I focus more on that 80 % where I was perfect.

I am like my own kid , I am raising a lovely child.

I am easy and hard both but my core values and core duties are strict.


6 -No one care


No one is watching you, everyone is busy....

So why the fuck you are busy in caring what they think?

Just focus on good stuff !

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Two objectives of behaviour -

*Be self reliant

*Live in harmony with society 


Two psychology to support above -

*Be conscious you are capable

*Be conscious that people are just like you (we are same)


For me it's challenging to accept that people are all same like me ,,, but I am practicing

@18 Dec 2022

-Heer

(No one calls me Heer how sad)




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